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Questions raised when stepping out of Depression toward self-love

Here are some more questions and answers following my previous blog on bringing yourself out of depression in order to love yourself again: Is taking selfies loving yourself too much? If you post your selfies on social media specifically to measure your responses and comments on your photos, then you are basing your self-worth on […]

Depression and How to Balance it out with Self-Love

To overcome depression you must begin to love yourself.  However, many find it difficult to love themselves and I am often asked the following questions about self-love: Can I love myself too much Yes, you can love yourself too much and this is when you become arrogant and selfish.   You take advantage of people, you […]

How You Can Improve Your Self-Love

Over time you may feel that your self-love has diminished or you may even feel that self-love has possibly never existed. This happens as you continuously beat yourself up for what you perceived you have done wrong or badly.  Those who have experienced physical or verbal abuse will understandably question their worth however; this is […]

Anxiety and Anxiety Attacks Triggered by Attachments and the Fear of Losing them

The suffering caused by anxiety and anxiety attacks can often be brought on by having and holding on to attachments. Having attachments to loved ones, money and our jobs are just some of the many causes.  They leave you feeling insecure with many fears, doubts and a busy mind that keeps you up at night.  […]

Anger management can help when anger & alcohol don’t mix well for you

When someone cannot mix anger and alcohol together, Anger Management can be a solution.  We witnessed what could have been a huge fight between two groups, while out one evening.  One group of people were clearly not in control of their anger.  While another group were completely in control of their emotions. To explain further […]

Perception – Change your perception, change your life

What do you see in South Africa? Do you see poverty, beggars, broken roads and government corruption? Or do you see new buildings, luxury apartments, new cars, stunning natural beauty and bustling shopping centres? Whatever you focus on is what you will see more and more of.  It’s the same as when you decide on […]